Reading gives them a good background to assist with further education, interest in learning, enjoyment of other books. Unless you can control it? Contral what? A child having an imagination? Having fun? Disctracting themselves from the bully at school, the fights their parents are having, etc?
Yes, reading does help further education, but it's
what they read is what's important. I read fantasy books and played games to escape from school and life, not to enhance it. Rather than dealing with the world around them and solving real problems, they run away.
These books are so cookie-cutter, the same stuff rehashed. I had so much fun as a kid making up new worlds and new ideas with my friends. These books put constraints on what they
think is real fantasy. Fantasy is whatever you want it to be, why does it usually involve a mage/wizard and some magic spells?
If you actually look for it, the world is more magical than all those books combined.
The bully at school? problems with their parents?
As a human being you learn to deal with problems, and learn to be honest to yourself and what you really want. What kind of parent tells their kid to just forget the bully at school and go play video games instead? I used to run away from my problems, but now i realize it's so counter-productive to do that. I'm 21 and i regret not realizing this sooner. When i was young i loved reading those little science books, full of pictures and facts. Making little chemistry experiments and playing with electronics. But i had very little of that growing up, but the kids today have a tremendous amount of that stuff available, even now i look at these kits that look so cool, i would've done anything to get one as a kid. But what do they do? What do the parents do? they just get them a game or game console. You want your kids to be smart? teach them something.
Watching a few movies a week, playing a few video games, reading a book now and then, even drinking a little alcohol (which i don't do), it's all fine when in
control. But everyone knows what happens when it gets out of control, you become dependent on it. You know who i'm talking about. Those star wars/star trek/magic the gathering/pokemon/World of Warcraft/Everquest/harry potter/alcoholics/potheads and so on and so on, who spend a tremendous amount of time and money on something that's not even real. People spend their life fortunes on first editions of comics, toys (oh sorry, action figure) and stuff that keeps them happy momentarily. Some people have died over this bull----, am i the only one who finds that odd?
It's far cheaper and easier to just not give into these things, and that fits my lifestyle because i'm one lazy mofo.
Have fun, especially when you're a kid. Relax everyone, you've earned it.
But don't act like it's not addictive.
I would rather my kid(s) have their own adventures and write their own true stores, rather than follow some kid who's definitely going to die in the 7th book :lol: